Flirting isn’t just about cheesy pick-up lines or big romantic gestures. Actually, the strongest signs of attraction are often unspoken. From a gentle touch to a significant look, our bodies can communicate a lot — if you know what to notice.
Experts mention that there’s a thin line between being friendly and being flirty, and figuring out the difference can help you understand the vibe — whether it’s a room or a date — much better.
- Touch Says More Than Words
If someone lightly touches your arm, shoulder, or hand while talking, it could mean more than just a casual touch. Body language expert Traci Brown explains that touch is one of the clearest indicators that someone is trying to connect. A quick brush might feel accidental, but a touch that lingers? That’s usually on purpose.
- A Smile That Lasts
Not every smile is the same. Licensed counselor Wale Okerayi says that a real smile — warm, natural, and perfectly timed — usually means the other person is enjoying your company and wants to keep chatting. Fake or forced smiles? Not really the same.
3. Eyes That Linger
People often say that eyes are like windows to our souls, but when it comes to flirting, they can also reveal a lot. If someone keeps eye contact a bit longer than normal, Brown refers to it as “gazing lovingly,” which usually means they like you. But if they keep looking away? That could mean they’re not interested.
- Leaning In Is a Big Deal
When someone leans in while you’re talking, it’s not just to hear you better — it’s a huge sign that they care. Okerayi points out that getting physically closer shows real interest and emotional connection. Plus, it helps create a sense of closeness without even trying.
